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Hanging Out 4ever
We couldn’t find a therapist, so we started a podcast. After 7 years of dating we nearly came to a breaking point and decided it was time to try something new, to talk about our feelings and record them. Our podcast is not the highlight reel of our relationship, it is our relationship, as authentic as possible. Dating and long term relationships can be difficult. Especially, when the internet seems so focused on only happy moments. We share our truth and hope it resonates with you and makes you feel less alone in the dating/ Long Term Relationship world.
Let's all figure this dating thing out together.✨
-Aja & Grant
WATCH US ON YOUTUBE https://www.youtube.com/@HangingOut4ever
Episodes
53 episodes
350 Reasons to NEVER have kids ft Girl With The List (Abigail Porter)
This is a BIG ONE YALL.Most people have heard about Abigail Porter, aka The Girl With The List, the internets most iconic and influential child free person with over almost 350 reasons to never have children. If you've seen her, you kno...
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My Husband is Obsessed with my BREASTMILK | Listener Letter
This is another Bestie-mail episode for the books..There's a lot of kinks and fetishes in the world and most of them I don't judge and hell even the one we discussed in this episode I don't judge but the way he went about it was INSANE....
How To: Never Fall Out of Love
Besties, our most asked question is "what is it like dating interracially?" but our second???!!"How have y'all been together for NINE years?"So we're finally answering it.This week we're talking about what a...
My Wife and I Are Polyamorous | Listener Letter!
WE'RE BACK WITH ANOTHER EPISODE OF BESTIE-MAILYes, this is later than our normal release time. Aja had jury duty. It sucked. but anywhooo,We're back with more dilemmas, more drama, and more people who need advice...
You need to date a “SIMP”
Besties, in this week’s episode, Aja invites you into the Ladies Lounge for a serious conversation about dating a guy other men would classify as a “simp.”Unfortunately, there’s a dominant narrative that men who “simp” for their women ar...
My Husband Doesn't Care if I Die | Listener Letters
Wake up, go on your lunch break or get off the phone because new ‘Bestie Mail’ has been delivered 💌 !and theres a BIG DILEMMA about pregnancy and childbirth that we NEED to talk aboutTheres a lot to unpack, grab a glass of...
We Broke Up Because My Life Was Falling Apart
Hey Besties!In a previous episode we shared how breaking up saved our relationship and we got a TON of questions on the real reason we broke up, a lot of y'all were wondering about the "Why?" so in this episode we talk about what happen...
My Boyfriend is DL! | Listener Letter
Wake up, go on your lunch break or get off the phone because new ‘Bestie Mail’ has been delivered 💌 !And in this episode DL. Y'all this one has us shaking in our boots, because WHAT DO YOU MEAN your ex boyfriend was D...
Why Are We Always Fighting?
Why are we always fighting? Why is everything always a problem with you? Why can’t you just be happy?In this episode we get into conflict, resolution and how to get to the other side of an argument with your partner. So...
My Wife Isn’t Attracted To Me Anymore | Listener Letter
Wake up, go on your lunch break or get off the phone because new ‘Bestie Mail’ has been delivered 💌 !And in this episode the men tell all. We need to remember men are people with feelings and today they’ve stopped by ...
Sobriety, Dating and Staying Juicy in LA
Addiction but make it comedy! This week we talked to the one and only Juicy Mawma, comedian, content creator and 3 years sober girly- about her journey through sobriety, what partying in LA looked like for her, doing coke, drinking,...
My Daughter Has an ONLY FANS- Listener Letters
Listener LettersBesties, we've officially increased the Listener Letter episodes to twice a month, due to popular demand! We've got some dilemmas here that we need to address and they are certainly things that a lot o...
Have You Ever Thought of Cheating on Me?
Have Grant and I ever thought of cheating on each other? And could he live without me?Over the last 30 days, we've gained a ton of new besties!! (Welcome in!!) so we figured that it would be cute and fun to do a lil couples quiz episode,...
My Mother in Law Got Me PREGNANT | Monster–in–Law Listener Letters
Listener LettersWOOF, Besties — this one was rough. Some episodes we walk away from with a good chuckle and a lil bit of WTF energy, but this wasn't one of them. Monster-in-laws are everybody's nightmare, but these listen...
Dad, I'm Dating a White Guy
OK besties, in this episode we're answering a long standing question that many of you have asked what does my family specifically my Dad think of me dating a white guy? So our special guest is none of them my Dad, Michael and I sit down with hi...
We're Thinking of Getting Married!?
If you've been with us for a while you'll know that Aja used to not believe in marriage and was fine to just "hang out 4ever" with Grant. But apparently things have changed.They talk about they potential of getting married, the so...
How To Run a Strict Program with Your Man
Happy Sunday Bestie Babes! Welcome to the 'Ladies Lounge' a new mini series apart of the Hanging Out 4ever podcast with Aja where we keke, keep it real and talk everything about dating and dealing with men.Welcome to the first episode w...
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Is AI the Future of Women's Vibrators ft Morgan Hewett
She's building most controversial product to ever come out of Harvard Business School and it all revolves around women, pleasure and orgasms 👀Aja sat down with Morgan Hewett, founder of Devin Toys one of the first AI-powered sex tech com...
I Had to Become a Man in My Relationship (Before I Lost Her)
This episode was one we knew we had to have, and it was a long time coming. Grant opens up to Aja about the moments he realized he wasn't man enough for the relationship he wanted to have with her. From being emotionally passive, to struggling ...
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Would You Rather: Couples Edition | Loyalty, Love & Red Flags
Hey Besties! We’re keeping it light on this week’s episode… but trust us, the next few weeks are about to get heavy.So before we dive into all of that, we decided to switch it up and ask each other some very serious “Would You Rather” q...
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WHY Women Need Higher Standards in bed ft. Lady Kay
Hey Besties! We sat down with pro-sex content creator Lady K to talk about how Women experience pleasure, shame, ego, submission, dominance, and what happens when a Woman stops centering men and starts centering herself in the bedroom.T...
I Was Married To A P*RN ADDICT | HO4 Listener Letter Episode
You read that title right! BUCKLE UP BESTIES WE'RE IN FOR A WILD RIDE! As promised, we're back with another listener letter straight from our HO4 (Hanging Out 4ever, duh lol) communityThis e...
The Truth About KRISTY & DESMOND SCOTT
OK BESTIES WE NEED TO HAVE A TALK..The news of Kristy and Desmonds divorce is SHAKING the internet and we're here to clear the air and share the truth behind relationship content creators and the SIDE EFFECTS of MONETIZING your love life
Telling My Mom I'm Depressed ft Aja's Mom
Y'all know Aja is lowkey a crier. Her and her Mommy sit down in this episode to talk about Aja's childhood struggles with identity, self worth and depression. It's never easy talking about depression, let alone with your parents and even more s...
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